The below text is excerpted from Governor Andrew Cuomo’s coronavirus response briefing on Monday, March 23rd.
Regardless of one’s political perspective, we should be able to agree that Governor Cuomo, in his plain-talking style, governs and leads with compassion and empathy for what we are all going through in this crisis.
We all have to now confront that that is a new reality. That is not going to change. You are not going to turn on the news tomorrow morning and they are going to say surprise, surprise this is all now resolved in two weeks. That is not going to happen. So, deal with this reality. Understand the negative effect of this, which I have spoken to personally because these are personally negative effects. You do not feel them governmentally, you feel them personally. You feel then in your own life.
And don’t underestimate the emotional trauma and don’t underestimate the pain of isolation. It is real. This is not the human condition – not to be comforted, not to be close, to be afraid and you can’t hug someone. Billy and Steve walked in today. I had not seen them in months. I can’t shake their hands. I can’t hug them. You know this is all unnatural. My daughter came up. I can’t give her the embrace and the kiss that I want to give her. This is all unnatural and disorienting. And it is not you, it is everyone. It’s the condition.
And we are going to have time. And the question is how do we use this time positively? Also, at the same time we have to learn from this experience because we were not ready to deal with this and other situations will happen. Other situations will happen and let’s at least learn from this to be prepared for the next situation as dramatic as this one has been.
Also finding the silver lining, the positive. Life is going to be quieter for a matter of months. Everything will function. Life will function. Everything will normal operations, there won’t be chaos. The stores will have groceries. Gas stations will have gasoline. There’s no reason for extraordinary anxiety. But it is going to change. You won’t be at work, you can’t be sitting at restaurants, you’re not going to be going to birthday parties, you don’t have to go to business conferences on the weekends. There’s less noise. You know what, that can be a good thing in some ways: You have more time. You have more flexibility. You can do some of those things that you haven’t done, that you kept saying, “Well I’d love to be able to, I’d love to be able to.” Well now you can. You have more time with family.
And yes, I get family in cramped quarters can be difficult, but it’s also the most precious commodity. For myself, this young lady, Cara, is with me. She would never be here otherwise. You know, I’m dad, right? The last thing you want to be when you’re in Cara’s position is hang out with the old man and hang out with dad and hear bad dad jokes, you know – they’ll come with the holidays, they’ll come when I give them heavy guilt, but I’m now going to be with Cara literally for a few months. What a beautiful gift that is, right? I would have never had that chance. And that is precious, and then after this is over she’s gone, she’s flown the nest. She’s going to go do her thing, but this crazy situation is crazy as it is, came with this beautiful gift. So one door closes, another door opens. Think about that.
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